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The Art of Caring project
continues to celebrate
the creativity of survivors
& the generous support
of the arts community.
 

Here are some highlights:
click on the links below to learn more


Bluegrass & Old Tyme Country Music Festival
King's Theatre Drama & Art Weekend
Monday Night Poetry 3rd Annual Reading
Everson Museum Concert, Exhibit & Reception
Survivors' Artistry Celebration
Dr. Kevin Moore's Benefit Piano Recital
Art of Caring 2nd Annual Concert, Art Sale & Reception


The Bluegrass & Old Tyme Country Music Festival
held July 31 - August 2
at the LaFayette Apple Festival Grounds

resulted in a donation of over $22,000
to Vera House!

We extend our sincere thanks and appreciation to  Friends of the CNY Bluegrass Association including John VanDusen, Ed Campbell and Carl Stump for all their efforts on behalf of Vera House.

 




The festival attracted national and regional performers and featured, among others: Ron & Nancy One Song; Carl Stump & Stump Hollow; Dale Barnell & Wayfaring Strangers; Shiela Brown & Gospel Way; John Jackson & The Lovells; Father John; Diamond Someday; John LeMay and Cumberland; Sam Anderson & Chris Myers Band; Shortslef Brothers.


On the weekend of October 19th - 21st
King's Theatre presented a multi-faceted benefit event
demonstrating the remarkable power of the arts
to touch hearts & open minds!

The highlight of the weekend was
3 performances of Gary Sunshine's one-act drama
"AL TAKES A BRIDE"
starring
Dana Abrams, Kristin Kelly
& Earl Arnold

and directed by
Victoria King
 

 

[clockwise from upper left]
director VICTORIA KING and actors
EARL ARNOLD, DANA ABRAMS & KRISTIN KELLY


Critic Russ Tarby reviews the show:
"If the choice was between dreaming and dying,
what would you choose?
Two college-age actresses relived the repressions of the 1890s as they performed a controversial
one-act play called “Al Takes a Bride" -
a dramatic, life-changing give-and-take
between two young Memphis women
who have fallen in love with each other
despite the strictures of the Victorian Era.
read the complete review

Director Victoria King really drew out some fine work from these 2 young actresses, Dana Abrams & Kristin Kelly
and from Earl Arnold who was perfect
as the judge with a secret life.


At a talkback after the opening night performance one of the panelists was
Christina Carney, who is herself a talented local actress
(and a full-time Vera House victim advocate). Carney remarked that
a situation such as that portrayed in the play "is tragic on so many levels.
It’s not OK to have to live in darkness or live a lie.
Those shouldn’t be the only options.”
see the event program

 

 
Through the tremendous dedication & energy
of the talented cast and crew
the support of the Delavan Center & King's Theatre
and the inspiring generosity of the community
the event raised $1,300
for the mission & services of Vera House!

Our sincere thanks to ALL Y
 

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on Monday evening, October 1st
the downtown writers center was the site of our
3rd annual reading to benefit Vera House
presented by monday night poetry

the evening's featured poet was nationally-renowned
Rachel McKibbens
   
A remarkable gathering of talented poets and supportive community members shared their creativity and compassion.
 


Rachel signed copies of her book
"Drive the Wild Beasts Wilder:
New and Unreleased Poems" 


MNP's Jane Cassady & featured poet Rachel McKibbens mug
for the camera!


The event was held to raise funds to benefit the mission & services of
Vera House and to raise awareness regarding domestic & sexual violence
in honor of National Domestic Violence Awareness Month.
 

Rachel's poems examine compelling issues with unflinching courage and honesty, shedding vivid light on the tragic violence that poisons
relationships, families and communities.

The Art of Caring project is honored to share several of her poems . . .
The Second Time
For Du'a Khalil
Drift - for Laci

 
The Second Time

we filled a suitcase
with clothes, emptied the coffee can
of quarters into a pillowcase
and waited.

We timed our escape
around his snoring,
opening the front door
an inch for each noisy exhale.

My brother refused to
come with us, a betrayal
I would cling to
for twenty-three years.

My father had locked
the phones in the trunk
of his car. The nearest payphone
across the street in MacArthur park.

I called for the cab, my voice
bound by so much fear
I had to repeat our address
six more times.

My stepmother's nose was broken,
a collar of blood wrapped around
her nightgown, her scalp bleeding
where the patches of hair had been.

She sat on the curb, holding a
tangled fistful of it in her hands.
It was absurd to watch her combing
through it, as if anything
could be salvaged.

Back in the apartment, she had crawled
on her knees, feeling around
for clumps of hair in the dark.

And I hated her for that. For being
nothing more than a woman,
hated her for the pity
I could not feel.

Forty-five minutes later, I was
sitting in the backseat of the cab
watching my father rage
towards us,

my stepmother frantically
rolling up her window
yelling at the driver GO!

The cabby began to scream,
my stepmother kept screaming,
and I could do nothing
but sit quietly amazed
as my father reached in and
pulled her out through
the broken window,
dragging the soft flesh
of her thighs over
an angry tooth of glass.

The cab sped off with our
suitcase still in the trunk.
I stood at the curb, holding
a bloody sack of coins, waiting
for silence to overcome
the night.

The sprinklers came on in
the courtyard as I made
my way up the sidewalk,
following a trail
of blood all the way home.




17 year-old Kurdish teen
Du'a Khalil Aswad
was the victim of an
"honor killing" in April, 2007 - a startling, brutal pummeling caught on a mobile-phone video-camera and broadcast around the world.
______________
Honor killings take place when family-members kill relatives, almost always female, whose actions
they feel have shamed
the family. Du'a Khalil, whose religion is Yazidi,
was dragged into a crowd in a headlock with police looking on, and kicked, beaten and stoned to death, after being seen
with a Sunni Muslim man.
 

  For Du'a Khalil

  The morning I caught my brother behind the couch
  my pet hamster in his hands, holding her
  steady as a bowl of blood, a new heat
  moved through me, tightened itself
  around my throat like a leash.

  I smacked his face and bit his shoulder.
  He dropped the hamster to the floor. An Easter present
  from my father. Mine. I grabbed her
  and held her up to his face,
  squeezed until she went limp beneath the crush.

  My brother couldn't say a word. I placed the dead thing
  in his small hands and strolled down the hallway,
  whistling like a prison guard. That night, I cried for hours
  while all the house slept, blamed my brother
  for the wilted spine of my beloved pet,
  prayed for justice, begged the gods
  to snatch him from his bed,
  toss him to the snapping dogs
  roaming the field behind our house.

  Yesterday, I mourned a girl
  discovered in the wrong boy's hands. A girl
  whose uncles dragged her from her home, stripped
  her down to narrow hips and undeveloped breasts,
  slammed concrete blocks against her head,
  her chest kicked in by a proud circle of men.

  And their god swooned as blood flew from her
  body like a swarm knocked loose from its home,
  as teeth spilled from her mouth like fresh ripped pearls.

  When they buried her beside a dog on the side of the road,
  a small child in the crowd watched quietly,
  wanting to learn the softness of a woman

  as my brother, sleeping 8,000 miles away,
  sat up in bed with the dirt of my name in his mouth,
  both of his hands hot and twitching.

Rachel McKibbens   
 

4 Often called a "confessional" poet, Rachel
      McKibbens prefers the term "sincere."

4 In her first year of slamming, Rachel's team
      won the 2001 West Coast Regional Poetry
      Slam championship with a perfect score, and
      she was voted "Best New Poet" by OC Weekly.

4 Rachel has made National Poetry Slam teams
      for 6 consecutive years, ranked 3rd in the 2003
      Individual World Poetry Slam and appeared on
      HBO's "Russell Simmons Presents Def Poetry".

 4 Rachel McKibbens is currently the SlamMaster for NYC/louderARTS and is
       an Urban Word mentor teaching poetry through The Healing Arts Program
       at Bellevue Hospital. She is also an NYFA fellow.

 4 read more of Rachel's poetry

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On Sunday afternoon, April 29th
over 150 guests joined us at the Everson Museum of Art
for a Gala Concert & Reception to honor the opening of
"Images of Hope & Healing"
a Vera House ART OF CARING Survivors' Art exhibit
 




A stunning display of dramatic images
created by survivors of domestic and
sexual violence captivated guests with
vibrant colors and inspiring messages.


All artwork is available for sale
to benefit Vera House.
 



"Images of Hope & Healing" showcased
22 pieces of beautiful original artwork.



The exhibit was displayed at the Everson Museum from April 28th through June 24th.
 



VH Director of Communications & Special
Events, Chris Benton, touring the exhibit
with her parents, Gwen and David Sacia.

 



Art of Caring project coordinator,
Crystal LaPoint welcomes guests in Hosmer Auditorium before the afternoon's concert.



Robert Cowles, Artistic Director of the Syracuse Vocal Ensemble, acknowledges
the group for their wonderful performance. The talented singers delighted
concert-goers with a uniquely diverse set of colorful Jewish folk songs.
To learn more about SVE, please visit their website . . .
Syracuse Vocal Ensemble



Dr. Kevin Moore offered a fantastic array of classical fireworks & toe-tapping Gershwin jazz. Kevin's generous support of the Art of Caring project, including two benefit recitals
and a CD recording, earned him a personalized brick on the Vera House
Wall of Recognition which was unveiled on April 25th.

Major Gift Thank-You Breakfast



Members of the Syracuse Symphony Orchestra Brass Quintet brought the concert to a
rousing conclusion, filling Hosmer Auditorium with the glorious sound of brass!

Vera House is sincerely grateful to all of the afternoon's performers
for their generous gifts of artistry and spirit.

click here to see the concert program




Vera House Programs Administrator
& Student Intern Coordinator, Dotti
Barraco-Hetnar with intern, Muna
Al-Mutawa at the reception in the
Everson Museum Sculpture Court.
 



Our thanks to News10Now
for its coverage of the event!

images of hope & healing

To purchase artwork, contact
Chris Benton at #425.0818 x248
e-mail the Art of Caring

 

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On Saturday evening, March 3rd
an intimate group of survivors & supporters gathered at Jazz Central
for the first Vera House Art of Caring
"Survivors Artistry Celebration"
The event was a unique, multi-media experience
combining sight & sound to open the mind, touch the heart
and heal the soul!

 


Throughout the evening's performance,
a breathtaking slideshow of over 80 original art images
created by survivors of domestic and sexual violence was projected center stage, while a host of talented & courageous poets, authors and singer/songwriters
shared their experiences of despair and hope, grief and healing.

It was a soul-stirring, emotional evening
made unforgettable by the generous gifts of:
Diane Bostick . Cathy Brochu . Jane Cassady . Ashley Cox . Crystal Collette
Debra Faes . Heidi Kuhl . Crystal LaPoint . Betty Lee . Brenda Plumley
David Terrero . Jenny Terrero Rivera . Theresa Solotoff
Mary Stebbins-Taitt . John Wolford

 

One of the
evening's highlights
was Betty Lee's
inspiring rendition
of her original song
"Pilot Light"

our special thanks to Betty
for sharing the lyrics with us
and with you . . .

 

 Pilot Light

 

Once she lived in a world of dreams
With knights in white and romance themes
And hid the truth inside herself
And stored her future on the shelf

Her brain was numb with listening
To only words that bite and sting
Could she make it in this world alone?
She doubted it, her courage gone

She glanced in the mirror and spoke “that’s you
I despise the woman you’re talking to
She has no strength, no will, no glue
To stick to what she has to do”

But her soul still had a pilot light
She prayed the Lord’s Prayer every night
She finally heard her inner voice:
"Enough’s enough . . . You have a choice”

And her flame grew brighter every day
Though she didn’t notice right away
Time to unlearn . . . and time to heal
And time must pass to make it real

In her soul, there burns a pilot light
She says her prayers most every night
She listens to her inner voice
She can rejoice . . . she made that choice

In her soul, there burns a pilot light
It warms her heart, and flames up bright
She can look in the mirror and say “that’s you!
I like that woman you’re talking to"

In her reflection, she says “Hello -
I like that woman you’ve come to know"

Betty Lee
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On Sunday, February 4th of 2007, Dr. Kevin Moore presented his second
Piano Recital to Benefit Vera House
at Bellevue Heights United Methodist Church


Dr. Moore delighted an appreciative audience of over 60
with piano masterpieces by Bach/Busoni, Mozart, Brahms & Schumann.

click here for the recital program


Volunteer Andrea Roth joins Vera House Programs Administrator, Dotti Barraco-Hetnar to welcome arriving audience members.


Dr. Moore graciously greeted dozens of
admiring concertgoers at a reception
following the performance.


The lovely reception was hosted by generous Vera House volunteers:
(l to r) Warren Baldwin, Marcia Liggett, VH Volunteer Coordinator Roxanne McMaster,
Lucille Viola, Pat Cupernal, Art of Caring Coordinator Crystal LaPoint & Dr. Kevin Moore.


A highlight of the beautiful musical program
was Dr. Moore's sensitive performance of
Robert Schumann's "Romance in F#, op. 28 no.2" . . .

click to hear Dr. Moore play the "Romance in F#"

Our sincere thanks to Kevin Moore
for his extraordinary musical artistry
& inspiring generosity of spirit!

 

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We marked our 1st anniversary on Sunday, October 29th of 2006 with
The 2nd Annual Art of Caring Concert,
Art Sale & Reception
at May Memorial Unitarian Universalist Society


Vera House's Ping Ning admires
the diverse art exhibit


Guests purchasing beautiful pieces
donated by regional artists

Guests enjoyed an eclectic musical banquet featuring performances by:

violinist  .  David Alber
women's chorale  .  Concinnity
clarinetist  .  David Abrams
& pianist  .

singer/songwriter  .  John Wolford
soprano  .  Julianna Sabol
Irish music group  .  Tathu
Crystal LaPoint


Guests, including members of Concinnity
were treated to a lovely reception


Vera House's Elisa Morales & her
daughters enjoy the afternoon

An exhibit of work donated by Syracuse-area professional artists
and highlighting Vera House "Survivors' Art" posters
provided a colorful backdrop for the afternoon's festivities.


Donating artists include:
Joan Applebaum  .  Debra Faes  .  John Fitzsimmons  .  Shel & Donal Little
Christina Munger  .  Betty Murtagh  .  PhotoImpressions  .  Rosalie Spitzer
Mary Stebbins-Taitt  .  Maria Strazzulla  .  Sylvia Taylor


Members of the Irish music group
Tathu, offered a toe-tapping
conclusion to the concert!


Caterer Amy Bell receives a
thank-you gift from Vera
House's Dotti Barraco-Hetnar.

Vera House and the Art of Caring project are especially grateful for the
inspiring & courageous performance offered by singer/songwriter John Wolford, whose cousin Lori Leonard tragically lost her life to domestic violence,
leaving behind two young sons. In her honor, and with John's kind permission
we share the lyrics to one of his original songs...


Yesterday’s Sorrows

I remember long ago when I was just five
Mother had to go away - I never knew the reason why
and I wonder still

There was a time when I learned to pray to angels
I’d say "Send them all down
tonight I’m calling to take away yesterday’s sorrows
Send them ‘cause I’m alone
to take away yesterday’s sorrows"

All I have now are pictures and stories
Family and friends are my link to her life
and I wonder still

Where we would be if she were here with me?
I say "Please send my love - I miss my mom
She was taken away from me to heaven up above
Please send my love"

As years go past I realize how precious life can be
Our time on Earth is known to none - make the most of what you see
And I understand that I still have the gift of prayer to angels

I’d say "Send them all down
tonight I’m calling to take away yesterday’s sorrows
Send them ‘cause I’m alone
to take away yesterday’s sorrows"

by Jeff Leonard & John Wolford
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hear John sing "Yesterday's Sorrows"

 

We look forward to more Art of Caring events in the coming months
as we continue to share the healing power of creativity with survivors
and celebrate the joy of the arts throughout our community!

For more info about the Art of Caring
please contact project coordinator Chris Benton
at #315.425.0818 ext248
e-mail Art of Caring

 

 

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